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5 Tips to Achieve Anything You Want in Life

When I looked back on my days as an athlete, I understood what was different. I remembered what (or who) made me push myself even when I didn’t want to. The difference was, as an athlete, I had structured days and a coach to report to. Structure keeps us focused and a coach keeps pushing and challenging us.

1. Get rid of distractions.

Meaningless things and distractions will always be in your way, especially those easy, usual things you would rather do instead of focusing on new challenging and meaningful projects. Learn to focus on what is the most important. Write a list of time-wasters and hold yourself accountable to not do them.

2. Stop being nice to yourself.

Motivation means action and action bring results. Sometimes your actions fail to bring the results you want. So you prefer to be nice to yourself and not put yourself in a difficult situation. You wait for the perfect timing, for an opportunity, while you drive yourself into stagnation and sometimes even into depression. Get out there, challenge yourself, do something that you want to do even if you are afraid.

3. Use your imagination.

Next step after getting rid of negative thoughts is to use your imagination. When things go well, you are full of positive energy, and when you are experiencing difficulties, you need to be even more energetic. So rename your situation. If you keep repeating I hate my work, guess which feelings those words will evoke? It’s a matter of imagination! You can always find something to learn even from the worst boss in the world at the most boring job. I have a great exercise for you: Just for three days, think and say positive things only. See what happens.

4. Seek knowledge, not results.

If you focus on the excitement of discovery, improving, exploring and experimenting, your motivation will always be fueled. If you focus only on results, your motivation will be like weather—it will die the minute you hit a storm. So the key is to focus on the journey, not the destination. Keep thinking about what you are learning along the way and what you can improve.

5. Focus on commitment, not motivation.

Just how committed are you to your goal? How important is it for you, and what are you willing to sacrifice in order to achieve it? If you find yourself fully committed, motivation will follow.

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5 tips on How to be Successful in Life

If you ask 100 peoples that, they want to be Successful in Life or Not? 99.99% of the peoples will say,” Yes, I want to be Successful in Life“. You too want to be Successful in Life 😉 But some of our life’s useless excuses stop reaching there. The only distraction in your path towards Success in ‘YOU‘. Yeah, you are the only reason why you are not successful. And the person who can help you to reach there is also ‘YOU‘.

How to be Successful in Life
Let’s have a look at some tips you should follow to be Successful in Life:

1) Think Big

If you want to live a Successful life, the first thing you can do is ‘Think Big’. You are not born to be an average person. The Average is for the weak. And you are not weak. So, Think big, Dream Big and Achieve Big. And always remember “If you can Dream it, you can Achieve it.

2) Don’t be Afraid to Fail

From our school days, we always used to hear that Failure is the first step towards Success. 😉 Even a small baby fails to walk for the first time but he doesn’t quite on walking. You will get greatest lessons of your success from the failure you faced on the way. Avoid being afraid of Fail and Try to know the power of Failure which is making you stronger and stronger.

3) Be a Man of Action

Many peoples want to achieve success. Some of them try to catch it, but at the time of action, more than 75% of them fail to be there. All they need to take An Action is ‘Courage‘. Be Courageous, start conquering all the distractions on your way and challenge life. Be a Man of Action.

4) Stay Inspired

As a human nature, our mood swings all the time. Sometimes Happy and sometimes Sad or Depressed. Even successful peoples feel fear, they also fail in many pre-defined plans. But, the difference between us and them is the way they handle the situation. Always maintain a positive mental attitude to carry out positive results.

5) Do what you love

If you don’t love your work, you will not think to move ahead and grow. Even you will not think about staying with that work. You need to work on the things you love. As soon as you start doing what you love instead of anything you forced to the internal change in your mind will start doing Miracles. Logically they are the easiest that others. This might be difficult at the start but will give you the awesome result at the end and most important no stress, no force and mentally active.

If you think, here should be some very most important tip that should be followed by everyone let us know by dropping your Idea in the comment box.

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5 TIPS ON HOW TO WAKE UP YOUR HUSBAND WITH A SMILE

1. Clean The Room

If your bedroom has been a little bit messy of late and you know it’s been getting your husband down, you should be as quiet as possible as you clean it up before he wakes up.

Then, when he wakes up to a remarkably clutter-free room, he won’t be able to thank you enough. A cleanroom is the first step to a clean, refreshed mind.

2. Give Him A Striptease

What do men expect when they first wake up? Normally, they know they have to summon the strength to get out of bed (boo!), before checking their emails to make sure their boss doesn’t want them to work early. Then they wearily head downstairs (while yawning) to make a cup of coffee, before showering and heading to work.

It’s the monotony that kills their spirit. So break the monotony by giving your husband a sexy morning striptease!

This is certainly something any guy will appreciate. Indulge his fantasies by first slipping into a costume you know he loves.

3. Read Him Some Inspiring Quotes

Waking up to inspiring quotes that motivate us is a great way to get our day started. It puts us in the right mood to tackle the challenges that are ahead of us.

If your husband has been feeling a bit down recently and stressed because of work, you should read him some inspiring quotes when he wakes up. This will put him into a positive mindset straight away and remind him that all adversity can be overcome.

4. Give Him A Surprise

Everyone loves surprises. We, girls, love surprises, but guys love surprises just as much. So why not surprise your husband first thing in the morning?!

A great way to make your man happy early in the day is to present him with a surprise as he wakes up. This could be a gift such as a video game or tickets to a sports event that you know he’s been dying to go to.

Waking up to a surprise is a surefire way to make anyone smile.

5. Leave Him A Love Letter

If you have to head out of the house before he’s even opened his eyes, you could leave him a love note that reminds him how much you love him. When he wakes up, your heartfelt note will be the first thing that he sees, and it will put him in a fantastic mood!

Hope these will help you.

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5 Simple Habits To Keep You Consistently Happy Every Day

It’s a little over three years since I first had the idea for Buffer, and I’ve started to notice a few patterns amongst the ups and downs that come with building a startup.

One of the most important things I’ve learned during this time is that I perform the best when I’m happy. It really does change everything. If I’m happy then I’m more productive when the hacking code, I’m better at answering support, and I find it easier to stay focused.

1. HAVE MULTIPLE WAYS TO “WIN” EACH DAY

Since the above activities are habitual, many days of the week I actually accomplish all of them. If I succeed with all five, I have a truly amazing day and feel fantastic. I have goals for Buffer, and I have goals in my weights routine too. In addition, I try to schedule one or two meetings or Skype calls to help people each day.

2. LEARN NEW SKILLS – THE POWER OF NOVELTY AND OUR BRAINS

“Being in the moment, focusing completely on a single task, and finding a sense of calm and happiness in your work. Flow is exactly that.”–Leo Babauta

One thing I’ve found during my time working on Buffer is that a key reason I’ve been happy for most of that time is that I’ve consistently had new challenges to take on. It may seem odd that new challenges can equate to happiness, but it is the times when I’ve slipped into a few weeks of working on something I already know well, that have led me to feel less happy than I want to be.

3. REGULARLY HELP OTHERS

One of my most fascinating discoveries about myself so far this year, is how happy it makes me help others. For some time I had been consistently meeting founders to help them with their startups without realizing that it was making me so happy. Then when I read Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life’s Most Important Skill by Matthieu Ricard I connected the dots of when I was happy and the activity I was doing: helping others.

4. HAVE A HABIT OF DISENGAGEMENT

“The richest, happiest, and most productive lives are characterized by the ability to fully engage in the challenge at hand, but also to disengage periodically and seek renewal”–Loehr and Schwarz, The Power of Full Engagement

As I mentioned earlier, a key way I am able to wake up at 6 a.m. is through my ritual of disengaging in the evening. I go for a walk at 9:30 p.m., along with a route which I’ve done many times before. Since the route is already decided and is the same every time, I am simply walking and doing nothing else. This prompts reflection and relaxation.

5. EXERCISE DAILY

“We found that people who are more physically active have more pleasant-activated feelings than people who are less active”–Amanda Hyde

In the last three years, I’ve gone from dabbling with exercise to it becoming something I do every weekday without fail. At first, I had no idea what to do at the gym, so I asked my brother, who’s a personal trainer. I then went a few times with a good friend and soon I was hooked.

Is there your own special habit which keeps you happy every day…? If yes, let us know in the comment box. 🙂

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